When you first fall in love with somebody, the connection and the chemistry is through the roof. Sex is so intense that seems like you just can’t get enough of each other. That changes after some years. After kids, work and other obligations, you may not get as hot and concerned by each other as you used to. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other anymore. It just shows that you have to put in more effort to keep each other sexually satisfied and out of a rut.
Most of the good advice on how to do that comes from other couples out there who have been together for over 12 years. Check out their secrets to a sexually fulfilling love life:
Engage in Foreplay:
Engaging in other sexually stimulating activities before the actual sex is important. Whether it’s a foot rub, or the two of you taking a bath together, dabble in other areas before getting to the main course.
If you find yourself living more like roommates, then lovers, it’s time to challenge yourselves. Challenge yourselves to having sex daily for 1 to 2 months straight. Doing this will put an amazing influence on your sex life.
There’s nothing wrong with doing some extra research in order to get stirred in the bedroom. Occasionally looking at ideas from others will help you to bring in some new and interesting tricks to be
Share the Liability of initiating:
Who is always making the first move? Make it a fair game by swapping out who initiates sex first.
Become Teenagers Again:
Remember how, exciting and spontaneous sex-lives where as a comfort you were a teenager? Go back to those days by “doing it” in risky locations.